Similar to the container exercise, the Safe/Calm/Healing Place practice lets you imagine ahead of time a felt-sense of safety and control, then return to it as needed.
- Find a comfortable and quiet space where you can relax and concentrate without any distractions.
- Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to help you relax.
- Imagine a place where you feel safe, calm, and relaxed. It can be a real place you've been to or a place you create in your mind.
- Focus on the details of your safe place – the colors, sounds, smells, and textures that make this place so comforting and soothing.
- Concentrate on the pleasant sensations in your body, or use the Butterfly Hug while meditating on your safe or calm place.
- Choose a cue word to associate with your safe place. This word will help you quickly bring up the feelings of calm and safety associated with your safe place.
- Think of the cue word and notice the positive feelings you have.
- To test the effectiveness of this resource, think about a slightly disturbing event – something minor that caused you discomfort or stress.
- Bring up your safe/calm place in your mind and notice any shifts in your body.
Practice this exercise regularly to help you build a strong connection to your safe place and promote relaxation and healing.